As parents, we often believe we’re the ones guiding our children, teaching them how to manage time, handle pressure, and stay balanced. But sometimes, they end up teaching us more than we could ever teach them. For me, that realization came while watching Ali prepare for one of his Model United Nations (MUN) conferences.
Our home had turned into a busy workspace, with documents scattered across the table, speeches being rehearsed late into the night, and the sound of debates echoing through the room. I admired his passion, but I also saw the weight of responsibility on his shoulders. Between leading his team, managing schoolwork, and preparing his statements, there were moments when he looked truly exhausted.
One evening, I suggested that he take a break. Without looking up from his notes, he simply said, “I can’t stop now, Amma; if I want to do it well, I have to see it through.” That line wasn’t dramatic; it was calm, determined, and full of quiet maturity. It made me realize that this wasn’t just about a school event; it was about dedication, discipline, and growth.
Over the next few days, I watched him lead with patience, encouraged his teammates, and kept his composure even when things didn’t go as planned. When the event finally concluded, I felt immense pride, not just for what he achieved, but for the person he was becoming.
That experience reminded me that parenting isn’t about fixing every problem or lighting every burden. It’s about trusting our children to handle challenges and being there to support them when they need us.
The greatest takeaway for me was watching Ali’s commitment to his MUN work, which taught me that perseverance is built on one decision at a time. Sometimes, the best thing a parent can do is step back and watch their child rise to the occasion.
Aisha Naqvi
Mother of Ali Ismail
