Parenting is full of tiny, unexpected lessons. Sometimes it’s sparked by a curious question at breakfast, a problem solved independently, or a simple game that ends in laughter. These little moments often teach more than anything ever could.

I’ve learned that parenting isn’t about directing every step; it’s about creating space for children to explore, experiment, and even fail (sometimes spectacularly). One of my most memorable lessons came, many years ago, from a spilled glass of juice. Instead of rushing to clean it up, I let my child tackle the mess. The pride, the laughter, and the realization that mistakes are part of learning left a deep mark. We encourage success but often overlook lessons in failure.

Over the years, my children, now 18 (ex-DPS Sharjah student, now in college) and 13 (thriving at DPS Sharjah), have taught me what it really means to be a parent. They’ve taught me patience, empathy, and the importance of letting them make choices while being there as a guide. Honestly, sometimes they’ve been better teachers to me than I’ve been to them.

Growth isn’t a straight line; today’s frustration could be tomorrow’s breakthrough. Staying present gives children the gift of time to reflect, experiment, and understand the world in their own way.

This journey is smoother when schools provide a strong foundation for both children and parents. At DPS Sharjah, learning goes beyond academics; it’s about creating happy, confident children and, in turn, happy parents. The school fosters curiosity, resilience, and creativity in ways that make families feel supported on their shared journey.

Take recent examples: the BEEAH Future Pioneers Award 2025 encouraged students to tackle sustainability projects, while the Art Arab Environment Day Competition gave children a fun way to raise awareness about environmental issues. These programs complement home learning and show that school can be both educational and genuinely exciting.

Parenting isn’t a solo mission. The lessons we gain from teachers, fellow parents, and even our kids themselves form a rich tapestry that goes far beyond textbooks. When schools and homes work together, children thrive, parents breathe easier, and everyone learns that growth and happiness happen best with a little teamwork (and maybe a paper towel or two!).

So here’s my question to all parents reading this: What small moment with your child has taught you the most about being a parent?

Ms. Smita Mohan
(Parent of Ritika Mohan 8E)